'I never knew my husband has three children outside'
My name is Pamela and I have been married for 12 years with two daughters. My hitherto happy marriage is being threatened at the moment with the discovery that my husband, Victor, has three other children, all males, from a strange woman who now wants to come and live with us.
What
makes this so annoying and hurting is that my husband and his family
cleverly hid this from me and now, they just want me to accept the woman
and the children, just like that.
When
Victor and I got married, we had planned to have four children, and just
like every other couple, we hoped to have two boys and two girls but it
was not to be as I gave birth to two girls in quick succession and
after that, other children refused to come.
At
first, Victor seemed worried but after a few years, he seemed to accept
the fact that the two girls were all we would have and did not make any
fuss about having male children any longer.
Even
when I get worried, he would comfort me, telling me that we should not
question God and that we should be happy with the girls.
Little
did I know know that he was sleeping around with other women until his
family brought the woman two months ago with the boys and told me she
was their brother's wife and that I should accept her and live in peace.
Instead
of apologizing for what he did, Victor has been telling me that I
should be happy that he has male children and that he had refused to
yield to pressure from his family to throw me out.
He
has made it clear that I either live with the fact or move out of his
house. My friends and family say I should ignore the whole issue and
live in peace because of my children but I feel betrayed and insulted.
Pamela."
Dear readers, on Morning Teaser today, we would like you to advice Pamela on what to do in this situation.
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